What’s it like to wear a bespoke suit, a suit custom-made to fit me and only me? I want a life like that. I want a plan, a pattern, a path that takes into consideration all the weird, unruly, shocking, steadfast little and big things that combine to shape me. But how?
“The word bespoke itself [...]
Start with the first step. Proceed.
Make a new friend.
Spend time together.
Be your true self, especially when it’s difficult.
Disagree.
Let them go.
Figure out how to soothe yourself.
Welcome them back.
Willingly fall further into friendship’s gooey centre.
Copy what you envy.
Forget who’s who.
Draw a line.
Notice recurring border skirmishes.
Learn about yourself.
Draw a different line, one that includes all of you.
Do your [...]
Dear Gracie,
I’m heading into triple digits in a few months and that’s got me thinking about you, back there at the halfway mark. Don’t worry. No need to roll your eyes in anticipation of receiving Precious Life Lessons from your aged future self. Rather the opposite, in fact.
I’d like to ask you a favour. Will [...]
My dear friend and fellow highly sensitive person Carrie McCarthy has just relaunched her Style Statement website to deliver more great information about being all you, all the time. I love Carrie’s unending, enthusiastic confidence that everyone is capable of homing in on what’s meaningful and beautiful and personal. Her message is to figure out [...]
Saving the world is good. (Duh.) But we can’t do it if we’re dead.
Or lying on the floor in a puddle of half-checked to-do lists. Or transfixed by the three-digit number of unread emails. Or brow-beating ourselves for being in debt or fat or lonely or dorky.
The first world to make sustainable is my own. [...]
